Hi, I’m Piku.

I am truly grateful for everything I have in my life. I’m from Nashik, and when I was 22 years old, I confessed my feelings to the love of my life. He initially told me he had been rejected by someone else and was still hurting. He also mentioned that he wanted to prepare for the GATE exam, adding that he saw me only as a good friend. I was disheartened and decided to let him go, so I focused on another childhood friend instead.

I purposefully conditioned my subconscious mind to unlove my first crush and love the new one. We started dating after I completed my Master’s degree. I moved to Pune, where we would meet often. He expressed that our relationship would only work when we were in the same state. Although I was interested in working in Bangalore, I decided to stay in Pune so we could continue seeing each other.

Then Covid hit, and everything fell apart. He broke up with me, leaving me disappointed once again. I decided to focus on my career in Bangalore and moved there for three years.

Suddenly, in 2023, he got engaged to someone else. I gathered my courage and reached out to him after three years of no contact. He rejected me again, telling me to look for a new partner and treat it as a lesson learned. His response was quite rude, and I found myself begging and trying different manifestation techniques while reading self-help books. In hindsight, I realized I had ignored his red flags and had been too obsessive, failing to love myself enough.

Eventually, feeling tired and drained, I moved to Mumbai in 2024 to pursue a PhD. Surprisingly, I met my first love again. We spent time together and began dating without even realizing it, and while maintaining a friendly vibe. However, he became unresponsive again, largely due to my negative thoughts.

After four years, I started reading The Secret. The book emphasizes that whatever you think about, you will get the same.

I began visualizing the moment he would propose to me. After a month, around Diwali, he called me and casually asked if my parents were looking for marriage proposals. I replied that they were, and I mentioned that proposals were coming in. This was a conversation I had long imagined. One day, after gathering my courage, he proposed to me first over text and then over a call. We were both very happy. He immediately informed his parents, and I did the same.

Now, we are happily married, thanks to the blessings of Lord  Venkateshwara. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

He also moved to Mumbai for his previous job, and we are living together in our beautiful home. During this time, my struggles in the PhD program came to an end, and I began receiving an SRF fellowship with the support of my guide.

Throughout this period, my ex reached out to me but I did not respond positively to him. I am now living a happy married life with the love of my life forever.

The key takeaway here is to let go, maintain positive expectations, and avoid obsessing over situations. Self-love is essential, as it gradually allows you to cherish yourself and enables others to love you in return.

The Universe always has my back! Thank you, thank you, thank you! Magic dust to all of you. I wish for all your dreams to come true.