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Perfect Woman Is Back Thanks To The Secret.
Submitted by: Jonathan
Buenos AiresA brand new Secret believer.
I want to share my story with all of you, and hopefully, it’ll inspire you, just like many other stories inspired me and made me believe and discover faith.
I met a beautiful girl from another country through the internet. We began as friends and talked a lot, all day long and sometimes until very late at night. We were very good friends, and suddenly, our relationship became sweeter and more intense. But we were too far away, and I never believed it could happen. She had her life in her country, and I had mine here, and many other excuses made me stop. Out of nowhere, one day, I still don’t know how or why I blocked her from my life.
A couple of months went by, and one day, we talked again. I was beginning another kind of change in my life, and what I had with this beautiful girl became more like a friendship again. Although she was very interested in me, I just didn’t feel the same way. I wanted to experience other things. Sometimes, a couple of hot and sweet situations happened, but that was it for me. I didn’t want her for anything else, or at least that’s what I thought.
We had an on-and-off friendship. She tried to get away from me for weeks, and then we would talk again. I didn’t understand why. I didn’t know she was in love with me, and at the same time, I was hurting her.
When she came to my country, we weren’t talking at that time. She sent me a message, but I ignored it for a couple of weeks. Eventually, I felt like I wanted to meet her and talk to her again. We went out and had fun, but she was in love with me, and I just wanted to be single. I made many excuses to try to make her stop having feelings for me. I convinced myself that I only wanted her as a friend. We had many fights, and one day, for reasons I still don’t understand, I treated her very badly and broke her heart in the worst way possible. I didn’t realize or care how much she loved me. I wanted her to be my friend, but it was too much for her. I hurt her badly, and she distanced herself from me again. I continued with my life, sometimes thinking about her and having mixed feelings. I didn’t do anything about it. Part of me felt like I didn’t care, but another part knew how wrong I was to treat her in a way she didn’t deserve.
Months passed, and suddenly, I began to miss her. I remembered all the things she did for me, how much she used to listen and give me good advice, and how sweet she was. She brought so much peace to my life. I really missed her, but I felt guilty about everything between us. I was ashamed that I didn’t search for her because I didn’t know if she wanted to hear from me or forgive me.
Then, one day, I was in a club with my friends, and I saw her, but she wasn’t alone; she was with her new boyfriend. My world came crashing down, and I hadn’t felt that awful in years. I felt like I had lost her and left the club alone because I couldn’t bear to see her with someone else. It was just too much for me, and I can’t describe the feeling. It was so ugly.
The following days were terrible. I felt extremely depressed as I read through all the conversations and messages I had with her. It made me realize how much I missed her and understood my true feelings. I also realized how wrong and foolish I had been. I used to check her Facebook profile, even though we weren’t friends on there. It was the lowest point of my life. I felt desperate and hopeless, not wanting to go out because I felt like I could see her anywhere with her new boyfriend, and just the thought was painful. I had not met anyone like her, and I don’t think I ever will because she’s so unique and perfect.
One day, I was with my sister in a library. She was looking for a new book, and I noticed The Magic and The Secret books. Although I was very skeptical, something about those books intrigued me, so I bought them both. That same day, I started reading them, and then I stumbled upon this website and all the amazing stories. I decided to give it a try.
I came across a story about someone who made space in her wardrobe and her bed for a special person, and I decided to do the same. I started imagining that person being with me, in love and happy, just like we used to talk about a couple of years ago. As a result, I stopped feeling sad and depressed and began having many good days. My mood changed, and I started experiencing so many positive feelings and thoughts, bringing so much peace into my life.
Once, I saw her in a restaurant close to my house, and she saw me, too. It was probably the first time in months that we had run into each other like that. I smiled at her when we saw each other, but she just ignored me and continued talking and having fun with her friends. I felt so sad and angry at myself. I knew I deserved that and began thinking that she was too good for me and probably she’d never forgive me. Something wasn’t working. I didn’t understand why The Secret and The Magic and all the stories didn’t help. I felt like quitting and just moving on. But I decided to give it one more chance and asked the Universe for a sign or something, just to know if I was doing the right thing or if it was just better to let her go.
A couple of days later, I was on Facebook, and a friend shared a video called “The Power of Intention.” As I watched it, I suddenly understood what was wrong and realized that it was the sign I had asked the Universe for.
During the following month, I tried everything I had read in others’ stories. I remained positive and tried to have faith. Then, one day, I woke up feeling unusually happy for no apparent reason. As I was driving to my office, I started thinking, “What if I see her today? If I do, I have to talk to her.” Throughout the day, I received a lot of good news at work, and I continued to feel happy. That night, a friend invited me to a party. Although I was a bit tired from the gym, he insisted, as he wanted to date a woman, and she wanted to bring a female friend. It was a Wednesday, and my friend didn’t have any other male friends available, so I finally accepted.
I picked up my friend, and we were supposed to meet the girls at the club. I didn’t know them, and my friend didn’t know the other friend of the girl. I was feeling a little bored and sleepy, but then a miracle happened. My friend’s girl arrived with her female friend, and who was the other girl?
The woman of my dreams! Yes, the girl I had been desperately trying to have back in my life was right there, as if sent from heaven.
We were able to talk that day just like friends, but I couldn’t help but feel so many things. I couldn’t stop looking at her and thinking about how beautiful and perfect she was; it was amazing. I found out that she had broken up with her boyfriend a couple of months earlier, and just around the same time, I started using some secret and magic advice. Two weeks after that day, we officially started dating, which may seem a little fast, but I was just so in love and happy with her.
We’re still together and have been living together for a month. It’s such a nice feeling, and I’m thankful to Rhonda and all the people who helped me believe, regain my faith, and win my girl back!